Hi Kalidren,
I understand your concerns, but we have to work together with the other alliance kinships to make the best possible move for everyone involved. Meneldor will not transfer until the very end of the process anyway, so we can’t actually move the characters for quite a while. At best, you can create a placeholder character on the chosen server and delete them when it is time for us to move. If you are concerned with losing your character name, you can go ahead and create new placeholder characters on each of the remaining servers. However, even if you “lose” your name in the transfer, you’ll just have -1 added to the end and (I believe, though I’m not totally certain) you’ll be given a free rename token for the character.